we got a big one!

I have a big problem child. The funny thing is that he isn't even in my school. This is a student that is driving me absolutely bonkers at CHURCH! My hubby and I are teaching faith formation class on Wednesday nights, and we have a student that is one of the most challenging kids I have had for years. The thing is that he sucks the energy out of the classroom, and it even follows me home. I talked with him after class yesterday, and gave him an option. Either he stops his disruptive behavior, or he leaves....what does this guy need? How can I help him? How can you make a difference with a student when you only see them once a week?